It's such a large consideration (and great thread) - how people transact with, convene and "commune" over music. F-d, Bertram, and Cecily mention important aspects in sharing music - as I'm sure others have as well. There are many functions and experiences of music - "entertaining" being but one. I make a ritual of giving my music to folks with alzheimer's and other disabilities, economically and socially disadvantaged, benefits, farmer's markets and what not - with non-typical instruments. Really, sharing music is non-typical, these days, in mechanized society. We can (and perhaps this may lay more along the lie of the OP) cherish the experience of the sound of the instrument, its natural voice, abstracted from popular convention (familiar song), on its own terms, if you will. Free improvisation - risky as it is - is often the most rewarding part of playing for others; crafting an aesthetic moment, with sound - with just an instrument between us. This doesn't necessarily require technical accomplishment - but has more to do with attitude and disposition, and a contemplative environment. Audience expectation (and demand) often interferes with this pursuit, but can be worked upon. Audience expectation for the familiar is often an expression of reluctance to engage, as well; consider that most folks are reluctant to engage, be challenged, open to new and different.. I think this is fundamental to the lay-person response to music - easily belittling or mocking, etc. A person approaches the player - with an openness, to some degree - to allow (a transaction, a feeling, a revealed emotion); this is risky business for the listener as well. There is a window of opportunity before the "closed" listener shuts it down - as if to say, "Here I am - move me." It's easy to see why many react with predictable and trite responses - to defend, to revert to invulnerability. Those who come open to receive are more rare (at a famer's market, say), as it implies that they must give as well - of their time, attention, graciousness, etc. Vulnerability is not something that many people typically seek or allow.
Performers have an advantage in that we are automatically bestowed attention, and have a means/tool to facilitate interaction. Many folks probably have an unrequited and deep-rooted desire, yearning to be engaged, provided for, ministered to, etc., but are protective. And at the same time - we are afforded, by the receptive, the most gracious sentiments, by those who value the humble means of convening through sound, and someone willing to provide. The really wonderful experiences are often eliciting these gracious responses., and openness, among those who came well-protected.
Music is powerful medicine
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