How to make your child not succeed at music
Also known as how to make your child no longer love the music they once loved...
1. Buy them a "crap" instrument that is either hard to play or won't stay in tune (better yet, use both criteria) And if it's a piano, have the thing moved several times and never get it professionally tuned.
2. Specify they must do an ungodly amount of practice time each day (and if they miss some time, they must write down the missed time and make it up on another day, even if the circumstances were beyond their control. At some point in the future, if they are really lucky, they can look forward to doing 8 hours of practice in one day to get "caught up".)
3. Every time they make a mistake, groan loudly from the other room.
4. Every time there is silence in the "practice room" yell loudly enough so the neighbors down the street can also hear you saying "I can't hear youuuuuuuuuuu!".
5. Tell the child that even ONE mistake ruins a piece of music, and you can hear every mistake the <name a city> Symphony makes when you go and it just totally RUINS the evening and you wonder why you spend the money to listen to imposters who are SUPPOSED to be professionals.
6. Trot the child out like a trained monkey and have them play for company whether they want to or not. Be sure to listen CRITICALLY for the least mistake and if the company doesn't appear to notice, be sure to draw everyone's attention to it by asking the child why they intentionally embarrass you by playing something they don't know very well????
7. Tell the child over and over it is your dream to see them in Carnegie Hall one day as the featured performer even if they started lessons so late that unless they were a genius about the most they can hope for from the instrument is personal enjoyment.
8. Point out every child prodigy of music that you can find to them and wonder loudly why THEY aren't making money, you've spent enough on lessons for them after all....
9. Last but not least, wonder what is wrong with the UNGRATEFUL child when they reach 17 years old and suddenly realize no one can MAKE them do this anymore!!!!
If I miss one day’s practice, I notice it. If I miss two days’ practice, the critics notice it. If I miss three days’ practice, the public notices it.
Franz Liszt, 1894
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