I don't think I'm actually an introvert - I'm sort of a shy extrovert. But I think it's important to differentiate between the natural need of creative individuals (such as yourselves) to have periods of solitude from the type of introversion that leads us to stay in the basement rather than get out and play with others. I've recently been invited to play with some friends, and I really didn't feel ready (I posted about this in another thread - and thank you mandocafe for your help!) and was quite anxious about it. I still kind of am, but I'll be damned if I'm not going to do it. But I've been really focused on getting a few tunes down reasonably well - and I've made progress in the last few days that has honestly surprised me. I feel like I can probably survive at least a few tunes now, and I never would have focused on some serious flaws in my playing if I hadn't accepted the invitation. Amazing what the prospect of being hanged in the morning can do to your focus....
So, while I understand being an introvert can be really hard to overcome, I also wonder whether you'd be an ever stronger and more competent muscian in the long run for having forced yourself to do so.
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