Originally Posted by
mee
Thank you all for the insight and encouragement. I have conflicting opinions from doctors, one wanted to do immediate surgery, another wanted to reduce? Reset and soft cast for a week and hand surgeon to check then. They did not give any sympathy or encouragement concerning my mandolin playing. I knew I could find encouragement and support here.
First, sorry for your accident. That sucks. So ... I've never broken my wrist, but God knows I've banged myself up pretty good in my life, joint by joint, organ system by organ system. Here are three things I've learned:
1. This is going to take a long time. Be patient. Give yourself a break (ugh! n.p.i!). Know that the fears that "this is never going to get better" and "I'll never have my old life back" are just part of the healing process--they're not rea evaluations of your situationl. When you think them, laugh at them. Think of them like junior high school bullies who just need to be disarmed.
2. Do your physical therapy. Do it exactly as prescribed. That's the thing that gets you the best possible result.
Corrollary A: Your physical therapist will have a better idea about whether you will be able to play or not, than your doctor. If you can find a PT who plays guitar, mandolin, violin, that's the person you need to talk to about the future. If you need a name, there's a guy here who's a PT/Guitar player who I've had very good luck with, and he may be able to point you in the right direction. Just send me a PM.
Corrollary B: Doctors don't know diddly squat about functionality. PTs do. Don't let the doctors give you a case of depression. Remember all those people who played instruments who were missing thumbs, fingers, eyes, musical ability ...
3. You can look at this as a tragedy. Or you can look at this as an opportunity. There's a lot of stuff you can do with one hand, even musically. Take on any one of them, it doesn't matter which, and the energy you put into it will take your pain and depression and disappointment away. Harmonica? Learn to play piano with just your "good" hand? Learn to read music AND play piano? There are lots of things that you can use the "down" time for, if you don't let those "bullies" I mentioned beat you down.
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