I found myself in a new situation the other night. I was at a jam, and turned out to be one of the stronger players there (Practice does pay off!) I'm usually one of the people who hangs back, leaves the leading to someone else, and takes a break whenever I feel like I know the tune well enough.
I found it to be kind of hard to suggest tunes that the others could play, and to keep everyone involved, especially since my repertoire is still pretty thin. In short, I felt like I was hogging the show.
I'd be very interested in hearing how others handle similar situations.